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Archiwum miesiąca Październik 2008


Even though…
- my parents weren’t available to me, I can be.
- my parents couldn’t admit that I had needs, I can.
- my parents were in denial, I don’t have to be.
- my parents couldn’t meet my needs, I am learning to.
- my parents couldn’t say „I love you” when they were sober, I can admit my
  love without being drunk.
- my parents used alcohol to hide their feelings, I can admit that I have
  feelings, and I can let them in.
- my parents used alcohol to avoid listening to that still, small voice, I
  can sit still and …




1. A sick family has no active higher power, i.e., God.
2. A sick family lives in fear and teaches fear of others different from   
itself in race, religion, color, nationality, etc.
3. A sick family believes that you must „do for yourself,” since there is no
God to guide you.
4. A sick family believes that to be happy and successful you must make,   
marry or have money.
5. A sick family believes that to have a worthwhile identity you must gain   
the approval of the outside world–and especially the approval of the   
family itself.
6. A sick family feels that the family …


Guardians are the cornerstone of society, for they are the temperament given to serving and preserving our most important social institutions. Guardians have natural talent in managing goods and services–from supervision to maintenance and supply — and they use all their skills to keep things running smoothly in their families, communities, schools, churches, hospitals, and businesses.Guardians can have a lot of fun with their friends, but they are quite serious about their duties and responsibilities. Guardians take pride in being dependable and trustworthy; if there’s a job to be done, they can be counted on to put their shoulder to …

How far do you agree with the results of the MBTI psychological type theory?

Insightful, creative, conceptual, idealistic, complex and deep, sensitive and compassionate YES, deeply committed to their values IN NOT SURE I HAVE SUCH STRONG VALUES. Wants to develop themselves and their loved ones and will use unconventional routes to achieve this YES. IN FACT ITS NOT ALWAYS AN ADVANTAGE. Value authenticity and commitment in relationships. VALUE TRUTH, HAVE ISSUES WITH COMMITMENT, TO WHAT EXTEND DO WE CALL IT COMMITMENT AND WHERE IS THE LINE BETWEEN BEING WE AND CHANGING INTO THAT OTHER PERSON? Appear reserved and intense, but are assertive if their values are violated. TRUE. Organized and decisive about achieving …

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